Know If Your Marriage is Heading For Divorce
While all this is fine, so long as you can take control over your life and its strange twists and turns, the real problem is when most of us fail to catch the early signs of a marriage falling apart. Incidentally, a marriage can actually be saved if only the couples were more alert and attentive towards the changing vibes and the winds of change that blows across their closeness. How can you know if your marriage is heading for divorce? This is important since catching the early signs can actually help you to revive a sagging relationship:
• More numbers of serious misunderstandings.
• Slowing down of meaningful communication.
• More bickering and fault-finding in each other. When your marriage is heading for divorce, you are no longer patient with each other. You start living more as competitors than friends.
• One or both the partners getting over-critical about the other. Any and every thing that the other partner says or does seem to fall flat of all expectations.
• Minimal or zero physical contact leave alone intimacy or sexual relationship. Even if there is some amount of sexual activity, there are no signs of love or togetherness in the acts. It is more like rape than making love.
• Small comments made over insignificant issues flaring up in major fights are a sure sign that not only is your relationship taking a nose dive but your marriage is heading for divorce.
• One or both partners seeking excuses to stay away from each other or family get-togethers.
• Overt interest in a hobby or pastime which keeps the couple apart most of the time.
• An extra marital affair is usually the reason or a fall out when marriage is heading for divorce. Obviously, the partners are seeking love, understanding, solace and sympathy from someone outside marriage when they fail to find these things in their own marriage.
However much trouble your marriage may be in, things can be worked out again, provided both of you are keen to repair the relationship and rebuild the lost love. However the restoration may need a host of compromises and adjustments this time, to make things work. And these efforts should come from both sides as you cannot work on a marriage single-handedly.
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